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27 Apr 2013

Are You Lovable? Find Out

This looks like an awkward question. We will confess that he/she is not lovable? But the truth is that many of us are not lovable at all. Can you imagine of a small kid?

A kid is always lovable. Why? If we can answer that question, we will solve the puzzle about whether we are lovable or not.A kid is innocent. Knows nothing and is totally defenseless. You love a kid, because he/ she wants you to protect him/her. You love a kid because of innocence. You love the kid because of the smiling face. You love the kid because the kid has no malice towards anyone. Does not desire any thing bad for any one. Recognizes no enemies and has faith in everyone. The kid is totally free of all negative emotions. That is why we all love a kid.

How many of us are like that? How many of us keep a smile on our face forever? How many of us are free of negative emotions? Not many. Agreed that we are grown ups and can not be like a kid. But surely we can borrow some good qualities from the kid. How about forgiving everyone? How about not getting angry at all? How about having faith in everyone unless proven otherwise? How about loving everyone? How about becoming non judgmental?

Once we acquire some of these qualities, we will become lovable. Believe me that it is that simple. All of your friends and colleagues will begin liking you more. You will get love from unexpected quarters. You will get your dream darling in a little time, after you transform yourself.

10 Common Lies Women Tell... Must Read For Every Man

Why are some relationships more honest than others? Why are some couples more truthful with each other while others like to deceive the partner? Nobody deserves to be lied to, but there are no doubts that women are telling lies considerably and often. But so men do the same.

If you have trust issues in your relationship, in general, a woman may lie to you. Trust is something that you must build from the beginning of the relationship. Even though, a lot of people say ”white lies” in order to make others feel better. Some women lie because, as caring creatures they want to spare the feelings of the man they are dating or seeing.

So, here are some common lies told by women that you should know. Someday you might hear them from your partner and it is better to know their real meaning.

1.You’re perfect.
I love you just the way you are and I wouldn’t change a thing about you. Let’s be serious; nobody is perfect. At the beginning of a relationship all of them say this because they didn’t know you very well but after some time will definitely find something that needs changed. So, if she tells you something like this, don’t be too enthusiastic because she finds you perfect just for a couple of days, and after that she will ask you to change.

2.You’re right.
Every time you are arguing with you’re girlfriend usually ends up by telling you that you are right? Maybe this makes you feel proud of you, but you have to know that this is a big lie. She said this just to make you shut up, even if she didn’t consider that you’re right. She knows that after a while you will see that she was right, and may be waiting for apologize.

3.Nothing is wrong.
The most common lie ” I’m fine” when asked if there is something wrong is the most used by women. You see that she is upset, she is acting strange or doesn’t want to talk to you too much and ask her what is the problem she says that everything is fine. They don’t want to tell the real truth but they are expecting that men to figure out that something is wrong and those they had a mistake with something.

4.I do love sports honey.
Maybe she agrees to stay and watch with you every week at a football game but this doesn’t really mean that she like it. She accepts to do this just to show you that she is different from other girls and you have common interest. You may be thinking that you have found the perfect girl for you, because not many of them would like to stay to watch football, but don’t be too happy because after a while she might had enough and get angry every time you sit down to watch a game.

5.I like spending time with your friends.
At the beginning this is ok, but not too much. Even if they are good friends of yours, she would like to spend more time alone with you and not with your friends. If she didn’t tell you already this, she will ask you to keep visits from your buddies at minimum and then she might keep pretending she loves them.

6.Your family is adorable, so I like spending time with your family. The truth? Maybe twice a month. Think about it. Do you really think that she likes to spend time with your family where everybody is criticizing her and watch her every move? She agrees to spend time with your family when is necessary but she doesn’t do it with much pleasure even if she is pretending in front of you that she likes them.

7.Your bank account doesn’t matter. I hope you didn’t believe this. We all know that this is definitely a lie. All women want a guy that is financial stable and independent, a guy that can assure her a future with no financial problems. This doesn’t mean that you have to be very rich to have a girlfriend, but you have to have some money.

8.It doesn’t bother to me if you look at women or go with your boys at strip-clubs.
This is too good to be truth. Even she says that this is ok, she will definitely be upset that you want to go. They hate to feel second best to a night out with the guys, and accept this in order to make themselves seem less pathetically needy. If you choose to go, she will make you a lot of comments after, so you better think twice before you go.

9.You are very good in bed.
If she choose to speak about this topic without you ask her, you don’t have to believe all she says. If she starts to compliment you about your sexual experience it doesn’t mean that she really believes that. Often a woman who cares about a man tell him all that she knows he wants to hear just to make him feel good about himself. So think about your girlfriend, your relationship, your sexual experience and see if you really deserve compliments on this topic.

10.Don’t worry, it happens to everyone.
If you just make a mistake, or fail in bed, you might hear this lie from your girlfriend. She doesn’t want to show you how upset she is on you but in her mind thinks something else. I wouldn’t be too sure that your mistake is forgiven and I would worry in not making too many ” accidents” like these.With all these presented, now will be more easy for you to know when your girlfriend is lying. As you see, what a woman says is not what she really thinks.

26 Apr 2013

Ask Readers: I Caught My Father In Bed With My Wife.

Ironically this happened a day after she told me that she was carrying my baby. The strange thing is that my father and wife are behaving as if nothing out of the ordinary happened. My father simply got up from my matrimonial bed and ordered me to follow him.

In my living room, he gave me a cheque of N25m to buy myself a car of my choice while my wife went into the kitchen to prepare dinner. The whole thing appeared to be like a movie as I looked from my father to my wife. A presence more powerful than me held me down, preventing me from going after either my father or wife.

I eventually summoned the courage to move and found myself going towards my mother’s apartment. When I got there and narrated the whole incident to her, she begged me not to fight or say anything about it to anybody. My elder brother who came into my mother’s apartment while I was narrating the incident, laughed and patted me on my shoulders without saying anything.

My immediate elder sister, who has refused to come back to Nigeria from London since she left eight years ago, wasn’t surprised by my story. She only told me to take things easy and not try to make trouble with my wife if I valued my life. I am the last born of three children and the favorite of my father in particular. That night, my mother came into our apartment to take my wife with her. I didn’t sleep throughout the night wondering what strange things were going on in my family.

The next day as early as 6a.m., my father came over to my apartment to more or less warn me about trying to make trouble. He told me what I witnessed was beyond me and that it would continue to be the pattern until he got tired. After he left, I ran to my friend’s place who in turn took me to Epe to consult with a spiritualist. Without much ado, the spiritualist, told me that I will learn to live with the situation else I would become insane if I try to challenge my father.

He said, not even my mother can challenge my father. He said, my father has gone too far to change and that things have been damaged beyond repairs in the things he has done to us; that it would take the grace of God for my siblings and I to overcome the spiritual problems my father in his quest for power, money and fame has done. He too advised me to continue to tolerate the situation by accepting to live with my wife who he said, was brought into my life by my father for his purpose.

Two days after our visit, the friend that took me is critically ill in the hospital. doctors are yet to say what precisely is wrong with him. I don’t need anybody to tell me where the attack is coming from. This has made me very determined to fight my father to a standstill. I want to confront and expose him for all his friends and associates to know who he really is. I am yet to return home after that day. At night I keep seeing my father in my dream telling me to come home for my own good. My mother and elder brother have been relentless on the phone urging me to come back home.

We all live within the massive family compound which is actually a mini estate as all our domestic employees with their family live within the compound. My father doesn’t allow anyone working for him in the house to live outside the premises. He insists on it and has a school bus that takes all the children of his staff to and from school, my mother runs.

Please help me as I am so confused. I feel sorry for everybody in that house. How do I challenge my father and still be alive to tell my story. I feel so helpless and lost. Do save me Please

“I Am Not As Stupid As You Think”- Stella Damasus Replies Bloggers And Journalists

This is an unedited memo from Stella Damasus:

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I have been trending for the past two days now. Day one was about people wishing me well and praying for me on my birthday. Day two is now filled with gossip, scandals and all sorts, but that is as far as the so called journalists and bloggers are concerned. As far as I am concerned I had a blast on my birthday and I will not allow other human beings steal my joy regardless.
I choose to enjoy my life because I know I deserve it. Nobody went through my own trying times with me and I did not go through any with others.
When God decides to bless me, turn my mourning to dancing, turn my tears to laughter and turn my anger to happiness, no man on earth can change it or spoil it.
Truth is, I laughed when I saw some of the blogs and websites quoting and saying things they know absolutely nothing about. Writing things they have heard without concrete evidence, ghosts that cannot show their faces and ask direct questions. But they believe and think that they can wake up one day and decide people’s fate and destiny. Unfortunately they are made to feel important because people hate to read positive things and achievements, but give them juicy gossip and all of a sudden you become the most popular writer who has gist on everybody.
I realized that when I write blogs and articles about important information, encouragement, education and positive things, only twenty percent out of a hundred actually read it and leave comments. The other eighty percent jump at the gossip and scandals and then start to ask me stupid questions. These are people who have not communicated with me in ages but all of a sudden they feel the need to profess undying friendship and a listening ear. The fact that they believe I have the time or energy to respond to the most trivial issues baffles me.
Let me repeat myself in case some of these people missed it. “I really do not care what you say or write, the truth is who God has blessed no man can curse” , and if you believe that trying to turn a wonderful birthday into a global gossip game will make me feel bad then I am so sorry this Stella is not as stupid as you think”

Husband, In-Laws Inject Pregnant Woman With HIV Blood

In a shocking incident, a woman was allegedly injected with HIV infected blood by her husband and in-laws at Cherukupalli mandal in Guntur district for conceiving a baby girl and failing to get more dowry.

Husband, In-Laws Inject Pregnant Woman With HIV Blood

The husband and his parents allegedly did the ghastly deed with the help of a compounder who is also their relative.

Though the incident occurred three months ago, it came to light only Wednesday when the victim, Asodi Tirupatamma of Betapudi village in Bapatla mandal, lodged a complaint with the Vedullapally police.

The victim, eight months pregnant, alleged that her husband Mutyala Srinivasa Reddy, father-in-law Venkateswara Reddy and mother-in-law Indravati of Mutyalavaripalem in Cherukupalli mandal had harassed her for additional dowry and injected HIV-infected blood with a syringe with the help of compounder Nagireddy.

Bapatla inspector Y Ramarao told Express a dowry harassment and another case for outraging the modesty of a woman was booked against the husband’s family members for insulting the woman and allegedly driving her out of home.

Another case was also registered for conducting sex determination test.

World's 20 Highest-Paid Football Coaches, Real Madrid's José Mourinho Tops List With $19.7M

Real Madrid coach José Mourinho is "at the top of managerial earners in world football" -- Alex Ferguson is only fourth and England boss Roy Hodgson is 30th, according to Dan Ripley of the London DAILY MAIL. Brazilian sports business consulting firm Pluri Consultoria "has ranked" what it considers to be "the highest earning 20 bosses in the game with former Chelsea Manager Mourinho sitting pretty at the summit, allegedly earning £12.3M ($19.7M) per year." Hodgson, reportedly on £2M ($3.2M) a year, may have been "a surprise choice to pip Harry Redknapp to the England post earlier this year, but the former Tottenham manager’s services "are being rewarded with a far more handsome pay check at Loftus Road." Carlo Ancelotti "is second with a salary of £10.9M ($17.4M) at Paris St. Germain." Ferguson is the highest-earning Premier League manager on £7.6M ($12.1M) at ManU, "with six other bosses in the English top flight making the top 30." The highest paid int'l manager is former England boss Fabio Capello, "whose disastrous spell in charge of the Three Lions at the 2010 World Cup has done little to put off Russia," which is paying the Italian £6.3M ($10M)

TOP 20 RICHEST FOOTBALL COACHES

NO. NAME INCOME/yr
1 Jose Mourinho (Real Madrid £12.3M ($19.7M)
2 Carlo Ancelotti (PSG) £10.9M ($17.4M)
3 Marcelo Lippi (Guangzhou) £8.7M ($13.9M)
4 Sir Alex Ferguson (Manchester Utd) £7.6M ($12.1M)
5 Arsene Wenger (Arsenal) £7.5M ($12.0M)
6 Guus Hiddink (Anzhi Makhachkala) £6.7M ($10.7M)
7 Fabio Capello (Russia) £6.3M ($10.0M)
8

Tito Vilanova (Barcelona)

£5.6M ($8.9M)
9 Jose Antonio Camacho (China) £4.8M ($7.7M)
10 Roberto Mancini (Manchester City) £4.8M
11 Frank Rijkaard (Saudi Arabia) £4.3M ($6.9M)
12 Jupp Heynckes (Bayern Munich) £4.2M ($6.7M)
13 Andre Villas-Boas(Tottenham) £3.6M ($5.8M)
14

Harry Redknapp (QPR)

£3.2M ($5.1M)

15 Jorge Jesus (Benfica) £3.2M
16

David Moyes (Everton)

£2.9M ($4.6M)

17 Manuel Pellegrini (Malaga)

£2.9M

18

Paulo Autuori (Qatar)

£2.9M

19

Abel Braga (Fluminense)

£2.8M ($4.5M)

20 Luciano Spalletti (Zenit)

£2.7M ($4.3M)

Man Deported From Saudi Arabia For Being 'Too Handsome'

 
Drop dead gorgeous actor, poet and fashion photographer Omar Borkan Al Gala (pictured above) from UAE was one of the three men ordered to leave a cultural festival early this month in Saudi Arabia and then thrown out of the country because authorities thought their looks could corrupt...

"How My Husband Killed Our Three Children"

A mother of three has described the heartbreaking last moment she saw her children before her husband murdered them and threw himself off a cliff.
Ruth Fuller, 34, told husband Ceri, 35, she was leaving him because of a ‘schoolgirl crush’ on a university lecturer.
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She asked him to give her space while she packed by taking their children Sam, 12, Rebecca, eight, and Charlotte, seven, on a drive away from their home in Milkwall in Gloucestershire, an inquest heard.
She heard a car door slam but it was only much later, when she saw her son’s treasured mobile...

25 Apr 2013

Stella Damasus speaks + more surprise birthday photos

The newly married actress wrote this on her blog this afternoon and shared more photos from her birthday party. See her blog post below...I have Been trending for the past two days now. Day one was about people wishing me well and praying for me on my birthday. Day two is now filled wit
h gossip, scandals and all sorts, but that is as far as the so called journalists and bloggers are concerned. As far as I am concerned I had a blast on my birthday and I will not allow oth

Rihanna’s Most Provocative Instagram Pictures (PHOTOS)

Here are the combined pictures of all the things Rude girl Rihanna does for more controversial 

40-year-old man sentenced to jail over fake number plates

A 40-year-old man, Raifu Olatiloye was on Tuesday sentenced to six months imprisonment without an option of fine by an Ogun state Magistrate Court
sitting in Sagamu, for an illegal manufacturing and possession of 20 fake number plates.

Officials of the Ogun state Internal Revenue Scheme, OGIRS, charged the accused to court for being in possession of 20 different number plates which he had manufactured for some illegal business.

It said the offence contravenes sections 465 and 467 of the State Criminal Code law, 2006.

Delivering her judgment, Magistrate Victoria Williams said she found Olatiloye guilty as charged and subsequently sentenced him to six months imprisonment without an option of fine, after he had pleaded guilty to the two-count charge.

The Chairman of the State Internal Revenue Service, Babajide Odubanjo, while reacting to the judgment said, it was a welcome development and a plus
for his advocacy against forgery and fake revenue documents as well as number plates.

Ini Edo’s Marriage In Trouble?

According to Global News magazine; in a typical African society like ours, there are certain norms and behaviour expected of married women, and there are those looked upon as taboos especially when the women are not in company of their husbands.

It is therefore surprising that more than three years after she tied the knot, Ini Edo Ehiagwina is still of the belief that she is still that explosive single lady.
These days, Ini Edo has been caught behaving more irresponsibly than when she was still a

10 killed in renewed Fulani herdsmen attack in Benue

No fewer than10 Tiv farmers were Wednesday feared dead in Guma Local Government Area of Benue State in a renewed attack by Fulani herdsmen.

According to a witness, the assailants attacked Mbasenge community in Mbagwen, in the early hours of Tuesday, killing and burning the houses and farmlands of their victims.

A survivor of the attack, Mbaungwa Igboko, who narrated his ordeal amid tears, said his parents, Igboko Ananya and Kahemban Ananya, as well as his brother’s wife, Mbalumunga Ananya, were killed in the dreaded attack.

He said two other persons, Kwaghsaa Iorbee and Orsaa Akosu, were also killed in his presence before he managed to escape.

“As I talk to you, there are many others we are yet to ascertain their whereabouts,” he said.

While calling for the intervention of the state and federal government in the matter, he lamented that the attacks were coming at the time of full scale farming activities.

A member of the House of Representative, representing Guma/Makurdi Federal Constituency, Mr. Emmanuel Jime, expressed displeasure over the recurrent insecurity situation in his constituency and the wanton killings and destruction of property in the area.

Jime said the National Assembly would have to take urgent steps to check the recurrent bloodbath being unleashed in some parts of Tiv land by Fulani invaders.

When contacted, the Benue State Police Public Relations Officer,PPRO, Deputy Superintendent of Police, Daniel Ezeala said the command had not received information on any fresh attack anywhere in the state.

Actress Stella Damasus Secretly Married To Actress Doris Simeon’s Ex-Husband

The latest gist making round is that Nollywood actress Stella Damasus has married fellow actress Doris Simeon’s ex-husband, Daniel Ademinokan secretly.

According to sources, Daniel Ademinokan and Stella relocated to Abuja a couple of months back in order to strengthen their relationships.

As we speak, the two have married each other in a secret wedding that took place outside of the country.

The lovers who now have several business investments together are living a low-key life in the Federal capital territory.

It all started as a joke when the Nollywood movie producer started a business deal with the single mother of one.

Though they initially denied having an affair, it all came in the open during the launch of their Abuja-based boutique code 55.  

Previously, he was married to Doris Simeon and they have a daughter together:

I Am Dating Kentura, Not Nadia Buari -Jim Iyke Cries Out

One of Nollywood's 'baddest boys', Jim Iyke, has opened up on speculations going round that he is in a romantic relationship with sexy Ghanaian actress, Nadia Buari.

For some time now, both stars have been seen around each other in suggestive ways.They have also reportedly been seen together at some suggestive places which brought about the rumour that both have some 'rubbing and entangling of bodies' going on between them.

Reacting to the reports, Jim Iyke's image maker, Mitch Ngaman informed Nigeriafilms.com that Jim Iyke and Nadia are just 'best of buddies, they are not dating.' He said it is very normal for people to think that both stars are dating due to the closeness that exist between the two 'marriageable adults.' Ngaman said, "both share a lot of personal and emotional stuffs together, they are close but as at this moment, romance is out of the equation.

"When asked if Jim is still dating his Jamaican lover, Kentura, the actor's publicist answered, "yes."

24 Apr 2013

Are Girls Too Materialistic?

 

Just the other day I saw on someone BBM display Message quoting: Any relationship that doesn't lead to the altar must lead to the bank. I mean come on ! What happened to the old traditional

How My Life Was Ruined By A Man Because Of BlackBerry

I hear this is a true life story. It's very touching. Read and learn from it:


I became addicted to my blackberry and also my social media applications, and since I had constant access, I quickly gained enough followers, and especially guys, mostly because I had a lot of erotic pictures on my timeline, I was popular. Finally I felt I was the main girl, everyone wanted to follow me...
My name is Chinwe, I am 26 years old, I never graduated from the university, simply because I was stupid and careless, on my 24th birthday, I received a nice gift, it was a blackberry phone, I always wanted one, it was like a right of passage, my ex-boyfriend got it for me, he was a student like me, didn’t have a job, and I really never cared to ask as he could afford it, my concern at that point was, yes I had finally arrived.
Other girls in my hostel had blackberries and I would always get pissed when I heard sounds of pings and messages coming into their phones at all hours

Man Caught Trying To Pack The Remains Of Accident Victims For Juju


On Thursday a ghastly motor accident occurred along Owerri, Port Harcourt express road after the Army Barracks in Obinze, just a few meters after the entrance of Arab Contractors Nig Ltd, involving a petrol tanker and a bus carrying full load of passengers.

Three passengers died on the spot including the driver, two died later at the hospital. As if that was

$25m Lotto Winner Spends $1 Million On Marijuana

Bob Erb may represent definitive proof that potheads don’t care much for money.Erb, a long-time marijuana activist from B.C., won a $25 million Lotto Max jackpot late last year and has already given much of it away, including $1 million earmarked for the promotion of marijuana legalization.

Erb (yes, he’s aware of the fact his name rhymes with herb) told the National Post he has smoked 15 joints per day since the 1970s.His habit isn’t keeping him on the couch though. Erb told the Post he spent well over $100,000 this year to organize events celebrating marijuana’s unofficial holiday, 4/20.

That spending was evident on Saturday as thousands gathered on Parliament Hill in Ottawa to get high and rally for the legalization of pot.Legal marijuana isn’t the only charitable cause Erb is interested in.

The pot activist told the Terrace Standard he’s donated roughly $7 million to various causes since winning the lottery, much of that in Terrace where he lives.But Erb, who ran for the B.C. Marijuana Party in 2001, still clearly considers marijuana activism to be his most important endeavor.“Prohibition is the biggest social injustice of my lifetime,” he said to the Post.

Job Scam: We Paid N250,000 Each For Govt Jobs –Victims

Two whistle-blowers appeared before the Senate in Abuja yesterday and admitted paying N250,000 each to secure appointments in the Ministries of Lands and Housing, Information, Works, Trade and Investment, aided principally by staff of the federal agencies.
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Mrs. Rose Nkarishor Odey and Idachaba Tijani told the Senate Committee on Federal Character and Inter-Governmental Affairs that the job-for-sale racket was being allegedly spearheaded by one

Mercy Johnson To Dedicate Baby On April 28

Nollywood actress Mercy Johnson will be dedicating her daughter Purity on the 28th of April 2013 at their new home - Thomas Estate, Ajah, Lagos.
After spending over six months in the US where she went to deliver,  the beautiful actress returned to Nigeria with her almost four months old baby girl a few days ago. Mercy and her husband during the week, relocated from their Omole estate home to their personal house at Thomas Estate, Ajah, Lagos which would be the venue of the event.
She will return fully to acting next month

Actress Chika Ike Hair Worth N5 million

Actress Chika Ike got N5 million to shave her hair in a new movie titled Moments of Tears. She shaved her hair on set yesterday. See cheque Here

Agony Of A Baby

This baby will never know her mother. Her mother will never sing lullaby to her or rock her to sleep. Worse still, she will never suckle from her mother’s breast.
This is because just one week after her birth, suspected Fulani herdsmen invaded their community in Mbalaagh Council Ward of Makurdi Local Government Area of Benue State and murdered her mother, Felicia Asongo.
The baby, who looks so smallish for her age, was lucky to have been smuggled away from the crisis by her grandmother during the attack in which 27 people were allegedly killed. She is now being fed with baby milk under the watchful eyes of her aged grandmother.
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For more than two weeks now, over 200 members of the Mbalaagh Community have been taking refuge in the North Bank area of Makurdi, with some of them sleeping under trees after the gruesome invasion.
The baby girl, who was yet to be given a name, was about three weeks old when the reporter visited the North Bank area of Makurdi where the Mbalaagh people were taking refuge. She slept

23 Apr 2013

Mike Tyson Supports Suarez After Ivanovic Bite

Former boxer Mike Tyson has offered his backing to Luis Suarez after the Liverpool forward bit Chelsea defender Branislav Ivanovic.

Suarez has been fined by his club and is expected to be handed a lengthy suspension following the incident, which took place during the 2-2 draw at Anfield.
Tyson also earned notoriety when he bit Evander Holyfield’s ear during a 1997 bout, and he told the Glenn David radio show in the US that he was confident Suarez would be able to put the

Is This How Luis 'Da Vampire' Suarez Would Only Be Allowed To Play Henceforth

This is how Luis 'Da Vampire' Suarez would only be allowed to play henceforth............lwkmd!

Tell us if you agree to this… lol

Certificate withdrawal: Kalu’s party, PPA, welcomes decision to revoke its founder’s degree

Orji-Uzor-KaluThese certainly are no good times for the former Abia state governor, Orji Uzor Kalu, as the party he founded, the Progressive People’s Alliance, PPA, on Sunday, praised the decision of Abia State University to revoke the degree it awarded the ex-

Igbos Are Third-Rate Citizens In Nigeria – Kalu

Former governor of Abia State, Dr. Orji Uzor Kalu, has described the Igbos as third-rate citizens in the Nigerian project.
Kalu said rather than being accorded the status other major ethnic groups within the Nigerian project had, the Igbos had been consigned to the background in the scheme of things in Nigeria.

Kalu, who spoke last Thursday at the British House of Commons in the United Kingdom, said the statistics, which formed the very basis of the existence of the country, had glaring evidences that the Igbos, who occupied the South-East part of the country, were not as highly valued as the Hausa

Pregnancy Controversy Trails Nigerian Comedienne Princess's Wedding

Comedienne Princess Damilola Adekoya. the popular female rib cracker popularly called Princess has finally tied the knot with her husband, Ade. They made their union official today, 22 of April at the Federal Registry, Ikoyi Lagos.

Their traditional wedding would hold on the 8th of May, 2013.People are talking in a low tone that Princess is some months gone, meaning, she has been put in a family way by Ade, and in bid to safe herself of the shame and controversies that will follow thereafter, she quickly dragged the man to the altar. This of course can’t be the case because Princess is a godly minded woman who respects and religiously follows the principle of godliness

Source: News Naij

22 Apr 2013

Beyonce gets slapped and hair pulled in Serbia !!

Beyonce thought it would be nice to walk through her fans during her last concert. But some Bey "haters" decided that it was the perfect opportunity to put their hands on her.

And there wasn't anything that her bodyguard Julius could do about it..

Wrong move Bey..

Watch video below;

As you can see on the video above, the "Bow Down" queen starts walking down the aisle followed by Julius and flanked on both sides by throngs of adoring fans. Understandably, the fans are going crazy, waving and reaching out to their idol.

At one point, a hand can be seen reaching a tad too far and too enthusiastically, and then smacking Bey square in the forehead. Immediately thereafter, a second fan seems to slap the songstress literally "upside the head" from the opposite side of the crowd.

Immediately thereafter, comes the hair-pulling. Luckily, Bey breaks free almost immediately, and she and the obviously useless Julius are able to keep walking.

Jim Iyke In a Public Fight With His Girlfriend [VIDEO]

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In last week's episode of Jim Iyke's reality show, 'Unscripted' Jim and his girlfriend, Kenturah got into a verbal fight in public after Kenturah felt Jim was ignoring her and flirting with other girls.
Watch the video below

Toke Makinwa’s Fiancé In Lagos Road Accident

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Toke Makinwa’s fiancé, Maje Ayida was said to have been involved in a road accident yesterday when a police escort allegedly hit his car.
It was gathered that the handsome dude, who will soon become Toke’s husband, was reportedly going for a dinner at Oriental Hotel when the incident occurred. The dinner was with his father.
It was further gathered that the escort allegedly jumped the traffic lights but Maje escaped unhurt in the accident. Maje is the CEO of Eden Lifestyle.
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My First Kiss Was Stolen.- Bimbo Thomas

Photo - How I Had My First Kiss – Bimbo Thomas

Just like several of her peers, Bimbo Thomas decided to earn her living in Nollywood some years back and she swung into action by taking up training to spice up her knowledge of the industry. She had continued to hope for a better day until luck smiled on her when Funke Akindele invited her to play a cameo in her flick, Omo Ghetto. And since then she has been waxing stronger.

Born and bred in Lagos, beautiful Bimbo who is better known as Nikky on the heels of her role in Omo Ghetto, in this interview spoke about how she became an actress, her most embarrassing experience and her first kiss ever among other interesting issues.

What is happening to Bimbo Thomas, where have you been?

I have been working. I’m going to have a break soon because I’m going to the United States to shoot a film. I should be away for about six weeks.

Some actresses shoot movies just to exhibit their cleavages and curves without any message. What should we expect from your own movie?

It’s different strokes for different folks. I am a theatre practitioner to the core, I read Theatre Arts, I know all the nooks and crannies of it, so I’m not going to do just anything and that is why I took my time and if I’m doing something now, it has to be something reasonable and meaningful. The movie is going to be a tragedy and it’s going to be society related. You should keep your fingers crossed.

As a beautiful lady, how do you handle male attention?

I know how to handle guys; it’s not a problem. For instance, my blackberry is not meant for fans. I also watch my interaction with guys. You would see someone call you only to say he got your number somewhere. I don’t shun them because you can never tell. I handle them with care and I make sure I don’t misbehave.

You are ripe for marriage. What is keeping you?

You will ask God that question o. But it will happen. I won’t say I should have been married or whatever. I will get married. I would marry very soon.

Could it be that you are confused as regard whom to choose among those at your disposal?

No, the thing is I’m single but I’m not available.

Some ladies fancy their boobs; others fancy their hips and the rest. What do you appreciate most as your physical attributes?

I think it’s my face. I have got a pretty face. I love my face.

Some actresses love to marry guys that are based overseas and eventually they disengage. What is your take on such practice?

That is an individual thing, it’s about what you like. For me, I do my thing, whether you are abroad or Nigeria; I decide whom I go out with. When I conclude you are okay for me then I don’t have a problem with where you reside. My boyfriend is based abroad, yes, but he just relocated and we are together. I would say it’s an individual thing like I said earlier because we all have freedom to do whatever we like.

What is the most embarrassing thing a fan has done to you?

One day, a commercial bus driver and his conductor saw me on Ikorodu Road and the driver just parked and started shouting ‘omo ghetto’ and before I knew it all the passengers had come down and were asking me to do this and that. I was so embarrassed, I wanted to flare up but because of the environment, I could not. It was really something else.

Are you actually trimming down because you look slimmer?

Yes, I’m really working on myself because I am imagining myself in size 12 (laughs).

How did your first kiss happen?

My first kiss ever, haaa… it was stolen and it was my first love. We were talking and I was angry, trying to report something to him, and he was like ‘don’t be angry’ and before I could say Jack Robinson, he had planted a kiss on me. And I was like ‘what did you just do?’ That was how I had my first kiss. In fact, my first kiss was stolen.

Nigerian Lady Raped And Buried Alive In Bonny Island

Viewers discretion is highly advised as you watch this video. The content of the video took place in 2012, where a Nigerian lady was raped by a group of men in Bonny Island, Rivers State.

After raping her, the men tied her hands and legs before burying her alive. 12 hours after she was buried, the Nigerian army got to know about the incident, and the video shows the culprits and the JTF exhuming her corpse.

Unfortunately the lady was already dead by then.

 

How My Thighs Popped Out On Stage -Omawumi

In a male dominated industry like the Nigerian music industry, first runner-up at the Idol West Africa, Omawumi Megbele, has proven to be a force to be reckoned with. Some music critics in Nigeria have likened her to the legendary Onyeka Onwenu, who the singer did a duet with recently.
When it comes to dressing, Omawumi mostly rocks short gown which barely covers the whole of her thighs and at some instances, the shoulder region of her body is always exposed. This sometimes revealed her Tits. While some believe she does that intentional to stir controversies, others believe Omawumi is only proud being a woman, which she attests to in a recent interview.

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Answering a question on why her Tits popped out at an event, the Delta State-born singer revealed that, “because I have small shoulders and my Titss are actually beautiful, I tend to wear revealing upper body dresses.”
She added that, “when you are looking at the mirror, you are not well as tall as to see how troublesome it could be. That dress has feathers in the front of it and before I left my hotel room, I asked someone if the dress was okay and she said yes.”
Continuing, Omawumi stressed that, “so, I wore the dress to the show and when I was performing at the show, of course, paparazzi took my pictures and released them. I realized that my Tits were practically pouring out of my dress, there was no way I could have put my Tits back.”

Graduate Stabs Himself To Death

Residents of Wole Madariola Street, Aguda, Surulere, Lagos have been asking questions about what pushed Chidike Oyeka, a graduate of Madonna University, Anambra, to stab himself repeatedly thereby taking his own life.

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PUNCH Metro learnt that the Chidike on April 19, 2013, took a kitchen knife and stabbed himself repeatedly until his intestines were disemboweled.

Our correspondent, who visited his parents’ home where the incident occurred, learnt that the victim recently concluded his National Youth Service Corps programme.

A relative, who wished to remain anonymous, said the 25-year-old had been depressed for some time.

She said, “He did his NYSC in Delta State and only returned in February. Upon returning, he started to act strangely and we noticed that he was no longer sociable. Most times he would sit at a corner by himself and when we asked him what was wrong, he would say he was not happy.

“When the symptom became persistent, his parents took him to a hospital but nothing was discovered to be wrong with him, so we took him back home and continued to monitor him.”

Narrating what transpired on the day the victim died, the relative said it happened after everyone had gone to sleep.

She said he went into the kitchen, took a kitchen knife and stabbed himself three times.

She said, “I do not know the time it happened exactly but everyone had gone to bed while he stayed in the parlour. Around midnight, he was found lying in a pool of blood and the knife soaked in blood.

“His intestines were on the floor as well. From what we deduced, he stabbed himself three times without screaming because no one heard any noise. At daybreak, we went to Aguda Police Station to report the matter.”

A neighbour, who craved anonymity, said the deceased had once complained that one of the reasons why he was unhappy was that he was unemployed.

He said people advised him to be patient since he had only just completed his NYSC.

Our correspondent, who visited the parents’ home on Sunday, saw residents coming in droves to console the family particularly the victim’s mother.

Another resident, while consoling the deceased’s parents, said the family should have taken him to see a psychologist instead of a general medical practitioner when he complained of depression.

Mrs.. Oyeka however said the circumstance surrounding her son’s death was metaphysical. She said she had left the matter to God but was pained that all her struggles to bring up her son were in vain.

“He was my first born and we did all to make him happy but sadly he took his own life. We counseled him on numerous occasions but this did not prevent him from committing suicide.

“I do not think someone can stab himself to death except he is under spell. I leave everything to God because He knows best.”

Meanwhile, it was learnt that the deceased would be buried on Thursday.

When contacted on the telephone, the acting spokesperson for the state police command, Damascus Ozoani, said the matter could not yet be classified as suicide until autopsy was concluded.

“Although the family claimed he killed himself, the police will have to do their own independent investigation to ascertain what really happened. We will wait for the outcome of the autopsy and this will determine our next line of action,” he said

Liverpool striker, Luis Suarez (The Flesh Eater) bites Chelsea defender during match

Liverpool striker Luis Suarez on Sunday April 21st bit the arm of Chelsea defender Branislav Ivanovic during their Premier League match. The Uruguayan striker sank his teeth into the Serbian defender's arm after a tussle during the second half of the match. Suarez didn't get penalised for the bite because the referee didn't see it. He went on score the equalizing goal for Liverpool. He has since apologized for his actions, but I'm sure the English FA will still penalize him.

This is not the first time he will be involved in biting an opponent during a match, as he had been given a 7 match ban in Belgium League for a similar offence

185 killed as Boko Haram and soldiers fight in Borno – Officials

Fighting between soldiers and Boko Haram members killed at least 185 people in Baga, a fishing community in Borno, officials said Sunday, an attack that saw insurgents fire rocket-propelled grenades and soldiers spray machine-gun fire into neighborhoods filled with civilians.

The fighting in Baga began Friday and lasted for hours, sending people fleeing into the arid scrublands surrounding the community on Lake Chad.By Sunday, when government officials finally felt safe enough to see the destruction, homes, businesses and vehicles were burned throughout the area.

Authorities had found and buried at least 185 bodies as of Sunday afternoon, said Lawan Kole, a local government official in Baga.He spoke haltingly to Borno state Gov. Kashim Shettima in the Kanuri language, surrounded by still-frightened villagers.

Brig. Gen. Austin Edokpaye, also on the visit, did not dispute the casualty figures. Edokpaye said the extremists used heavy machine guns and rocket-propelled grenades in the assault, which began after soldiers surrounded a mosque they believed housed members of the radical extremist network Boko Haram.

Edokpaye said extremists used civilians as human shields during the fighting – implying that soldiers opened fire in neighborhoods where they knew civilians lived.

"When we reinforced and returned to the scene the terrorists came out with heavy firepower, including (rocket-propelled grenades), which usually has a conflagration effect,” the general said.Sunday afternoon, the burned bodies of cattle and goats still filled the streets. Bullet holes marred burned buildings.

“Everyone has been in the bush since Friday night; we started returning back to town because the governor came to town today,” grocer Bashir Isa said. “To get food to eat in the town now is a problem because even the markets are burnt. We are still picking corpses of women and children in the bush and creeks

Photos: Waje's Promo Photos From Upcoming Album

Stellar singer-songwriter, Waje will be dropping her debut this May 1st 2013.

While we await more details on one of Africa’s most highly awaited albums “Words Aren’t Just Enough”.Check out elegant photos from her promo shoot.

21 Apr 2013

Married to Her Job? Reporter In Wedding Dress Covers China Earthquake

One reporter in China went above and beyond the call of duty when she abandoned her own wedding to report on the massive earthquake that struck the city of Ya'an in southwest China Saturday.

Appearing on-air in her wedding gown, complete with the veil, the TV reporter covered the breaking news and interviewed residents affected by the quake that killed at least 156 people.According to The South China Morning Post, a photo of the working bride, identified as Chen Ying, went viral on Sina Weibo -- a Chinese microblogging site similar to Twitter -- as many netizens praised the reporter for her "professional spirit" during the tragic event.

As Shanghaiist notes, Chen was apparently en route to the ceremony when the earthquake struck Saturday morning (no word on whether she rescheduled the ceremony).

The coverage -- striking for its juxtaposition of a reporter wearing a wedding dress in the midst of disaster -- is the latest example of an off-duty professional jumping into action. Earlier this week, several reporters who ran the Boston Marathon, quickly shifted into reporter mode in order to provide firsthand coverage of the bombing

Ask MK Readers: Should I Re-Marry or Continue Waiting For My Husband?

I got married in 2006. A year later in 2007, my husband relocated to the US.

The plan was for him to settle there and then bring me and our only son to join him. It's been six long years and he has been giving us excuses upon excuses.

He confessed that he married a white woman there but only to get his papers but I later found out he was living with this woman.When I called him a few months ago I heard a child crying at the background, so I'm suspecting they also have a child together though he says the child is the lady's child and not his. I don't believe him.

I have no way of finding out the truth because I have no one in the US to help me investigate. He has only returned home once since he traveled and this was in 2010.

I feel like I'm wasting my life waiting for him especially now that I met someone else who wants to marry me. I'm not divorced from my husband so marrying another man would be illegal.

When I suggested divorce to my husband he flipped and told me to give him more time that he will come home as soon as he's stable there. I'm tired of waiting.

I need a man in my life. Can I remarry because I think my husband is also married

Please MK Readers I need answers.

Gunmen Kill 3 WAEC Staffs In Maiduguri

There are reports from Maiduguri, the Borno state capital that three staff of the West African Examination Council, WAEC were on Friday shot dead by unknown gunmen suspected to be members of the Islamic Militants, Boko Haram.

A staff of WAEC board in Maiduguri, who did want his name in print said, their staff were attacked yesterday while returning from Biu after conducting examination in the local government.

His words “from what we heard, the gunmen stopped the vehicle, and on realising they were government officials, brought them out and killed them.”

He said that their corpses have been brought to Maiduguri, awaiting further instructions from the board, before they are released to the affected families.He said the gunmen took away the Hilux vehicle, with students exams script collected from the exam centre in Biu.

Female Singer Allows Fans To Touch Her Private Part

Kenyan singer, Iryn Namubiru while performing on stage in the United states some days ago decided to thrill her fans some more by letting them feel her delicate part.What a way to thrill her fans.
What do you think of the photo?

Babcock University releases school fees for next session. Students protest

Well, they are not protesting in school or complaining to their school administration...they are protesting via the media. A few students from the school have sent me mails complaining about the exorbitant fees they are being made to pay to get an education.

The university just released the school fees for the next session and some of the students feel its outrageous.

1)Accounting- N1.5million
2) Nursing- N1million
3) Law- N2million
4) Medicine- N3million
5) Others- N860,000

The students are scared to protest in their school because they could get suspended. Babcock is a Christian University and claims to be a non-profit organization, so students don't understand why they have to pay such huge amounts to school there. But here's my thing; complaining about the school fees of a private university is like complaining about the cost of a first class plane ticket. You have other options; business class, premium economy class, economy class. If this is too much for you, move to a federal school, state school or less expensive private schools. Not that I support these fees, I think it's ridiculous. You pay N3million a session to become a doctor and when you eventually get a job, you make less than N200 thousand a month...doesn't make much sense to me...but that's the way the school wants to operate. You either take it or leave it! What do you guys think?

But meanwhile, is there anything the federal government can do for these students? Like, make their University bring down the fees? 

Source: Linda ikeji

Rape Victim Remanded, Suspect Granted Bail By Lagos Court

A Lagos-based couple, two weeks ago, got what they did not bargain for when an Ikeja Magistrate’s Court ordered the remand of their 7-year- old ward (name withheld) at the Child Correctional Center, Yaba, while the only suspect in police custody was granted bail.

The victim was allegedly raped several times by three men: Kassim Mohammed, 43, Oluwatobi Daramola and James Aniekan.The Magistrate, Mrs E. B Daudu of an Ikeja Magistrate court granted the application of the police prosecutor identified as Anthonia for the rape victim to be remanded in the Child Correctional Center because her guardians could not take proper care of her, which made her vulnerable to sexual assault.

The Magistrate however, released one of the suspects, Tobi, on bail. It took the kind intervention of the Deputy Chief Registrar of the Lagos High Court, Mr A.O. Isaacs for the Magistrate to temper justice with mercy by releasing the victim to her guardians after spending nearly the whole day at the correctional center.

According to the little girl, the police prosecutor, Anthonia, whom she described as the ‘fat woman’ accompanied her to the remand home and threatened that her people would not see her again. The little girl said that she was shown a cell with no windows at the Correctional Centre, and she was threatened that she would be locked there for five days.

Mohammed, Daramola and Aniekan were said to have allegedly defiled the little girl serially between July 2012 and January 2013. Daramola and Aniekan, were said to be about 21 and 19 years old respectively although, they claimed to be 17.The victim’s ordeal in the hands of the suspects, started when she was only 6 years old.

Two of the suspects, Daramola and Aniekan were arraigned at a magistrate’s court in Lagos for alleged defilement. The arraignment of Daramola, was held weeks before that of Aniekan. Tobi was arraigned on a one- count charge of unlawful sexual intercourse with the hapless little girl.

One of the suspects, Kassim The charge sheet reads; “That you Daramola Oluwatobi ‘m’ between July 2012 and January 13, 2013 at Idowu Egba, Ikotun, Lagos in Lagos Magisterial District had sexual intercourse with one girl “f” aged 7 years and thereby committed an offense punishable under section 137 of the Criminal Law of Lagos State of Nigeria, 2011.”

The victim who lives with her aunt and her husband at 2, Oladipo Close, off Lawani Ogunle Street, Greenland Estate, Isheri area of Lagos, narrated what she had suffered in the hands of the men.“My uncle (her aunt’s husband) and I were going to the shop. Tobi saw us. He then greeted my uncle. I also greeted him. The next day, my uncle told me to stay at home, eat and do my home work.

My uncle said he would be back at home very soon that he wanted to go and collect money from his shop.“When I went downstairs to buy biscuit, Tobi saw me. He greeted me and said, “Fine girl, how are you?’ I said ‘fine.” He asked if he could buy me anything and he bought gala and a bottle of coca-cola. He then asked me to show him our house, which I did and later when I was in bed and about to sleep, Tobi came into our house. He played football with me and left.“The next day, Tobi, James and one small boy came. They put their fingers inside my bum-bum (that is they thrust their fingers into her private part).

The next day, Tobi and James came again without the small boy. They now put their wee-wee(penis) inside my bum-bum(private part).
Another day again Tobi came with Kassim, Kassim was holding a knife and a pack of Five-Alive and gala.”Tobi left but Kassim used his wee-wee on me. He said that if I shout he would kill me with the knife. When Kassim had finished, he said I should show him my bathroom. I showed him and he bathed. After bathing, he said I should bring a glass cup. He shared the five-alive. He gave me four rolls of gala while he took two. He told me to throw the empty pack of five-alive into the dustbin. Kassim left after he had made sure that I discarded the empty pack of the juice into the dustbin.”

The victim who has gotten used to being violated sexually every day was relieved temporarily as she escaped being abused the next day by the suspects, as she went on holiday.  “The next day, I did not see Kassim because I went to my aunt’s sister’s place at Igando on holiday.”It was however a temporary relief for her because the sexual assault continued when she came back from the holiday.”

When I came back from aunt’s sister’s place. I was sent on errand by my aunt. On my way, I met Kassim who asked after my uncle and aunt. I told him they were around. Kassim now said that I should enter his house. The next day I wanted to go and buy biscuit for Chibuike my little brother (the aunt’s son), Tobi saw me and asked that I should follow him to his house. He threatened that if I refused, he would make sure I got lost and so would not see my parents again.“I followed him out of fear while carrying my two-year old cousin along. Tobi defiled me once again using his male sex organ. When he finished, he told me to go and bathe in his bathroom, but I left with my brother to buy the biscuit. My aunt asked me why I came back late. I told her that there were many people that wanted to buy things from the Mallam (the man selling provisions). I did not report all these things to my aunt and her husband because Kassim threatened to deal with me if I mentioned his name.”

MD Abubakar, Police IG Narrating her own side of the story, the victim’s aunt simply called, Ngozi, said when the ordeal of her little niece started, she was in Abuja where she went to give birth. She said she was in Abuja between June and August last year, and even had to return to Abuja for medical attention because she developed complications after she had given birth through Cesarian operation. While she was away, she said the victim was left in the care of her husband and a cousin.

She said it was in January this year, while she was going through the little girl’s clothes that she discovered that two of the little girl’s under wears had blood stains, then she suspected that something was amiss. She then persuaded her neice until she told her about James who worked in a barber’s shop nearby. She said the little girl also told her that James defiled her and threatened to deal with her if she revealed what he had done to her.She said, “Immediately, I called my pastor and told him what happened. He called one of the members of our church who is a policewoman.

The woman said I had to come down to Ikotun Police Station to officially report.” After the police had interviewed the girl, they got James arrested. The father of James was trying to defend his son that he could not have defiled the girl since he, the father, is a pastor. However, James was detained and arraigned before an Ikeja Magistrate’s Court, where he was granted bail.

According to Ngozi, James confessed that he did it. He, according to her, even wrote a confessional statement at the police station. But James’s father allegedly maintained that he made the statement under duress.

Unfortunately, while this was going on, her guardians did not know that she had been raped several times by more than one person. ”It was two weeks later that we discovered that there were others. I heard my two-year old son ordering the girl to lie down in bed. I wondered how a two-year old boy could talk like that. So, I asked her where the boy learnt that.“She was just staring at me. I insisted that she answers me. It was then she told me it was one Tobi that said that to her and that the little boy was present when he did that. I started shouting and asked if the boy was watching as Tobi defiled her. She said yes that Tobi ordered him to look at the dressing mirror in his room, she told me about Tobi and Kassim.”

However, Ngozi said the police were reluctant to arrest the suspects stating that Tobi’s parents went as far as alleging that she wanted to extort money from them while Kassim’s wife claimed that her husband was not in Lagos.

According to Ngozi, the police were no longer working in our interest even when Tobi was arraigned before a Magistrate’s Court presided over by Mrs. E. B Daudu. She said what really galled her and her husband was when the police prosecutor identified as Anthonia who was supposed to be working in her interest, made an application for the rape victim to be remanded in the Child Correctional Center at Yaba.

The prosecutor claimed that the application was necessary because the guardians could not take proper care of her. This, she said was what made her vulnerable to sexual assault. To the chagrin of the plaintiffs, Mrs. Daodu granted the application while she released Tobi on bail.

Meanwhile, the family of the victim who no longer has any trust in the ability of the police to prosecute the three suspects is making efforts to get the Lagos State Government to take over the case from the police.

Fire in Olodi-Apapa, One Person dead

NEMA has reported that a fire is raging on Aben Street, Olodi-Apapa in Lagos.SaharaReporters has learned that one person died and one has been injured. Firemen were attacked by citizens in Olodi-Apapa, claiming that they showed up too late to proper fight the fire.

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